Control, the ultimate illusion of all time. 
I'm sure you've all heard someone say something like," I just want to
get control of my life."  It's a nice
enough thought, but is it realistic?  Yes and no.  Yes, in the sense
that we all have control of how we decide to
react to certain situations, but no, in the sense that we have very
little if any control over what others do,
not to mention things like the weather.

For myself, I've never before felt as though I've had so much control
in my life as I do now.  why you ask
and how did I get there?  Well, I've given over, for the most part, my
life to God.  By doing so, I have found life
to be far easier and MUCH less stressful. 
Kinda odd huh.  By giving up control, I've gained control. 

The fact is, the more one "attempts" to gain control, the more chaotic
their life becomes............